vendredi 29 février 2008

Début et fin - The beggining and the end


Hello everyone, here is a long story short because I want to show you all the wonderful cards I've received and well I feel it will be better if I explained what did happen to me in the last month. I found out I was pregnant the 24 of January. I had to tell right away at my job to be sure that the baby is safe. So I have told some of my friends and I did receive some great cards to congratulate me. I really wanted to share them with you at the time but was afraid something would go wrong and I waited... Then things went wrong... I had a first ultrasounds that showed that the baby was not as "old" as it was supposed too. And then, I've started bleeding and I had the confirmation today that I have lost the baby. The positive part of this not so positive story is that I did not need any medical intervention. I've told my friends at the Stamp Shack that I had to wait to know if the baby was ok and I did received some other great cards that I'm so please to share with you all. I feel so blessed to have such great friends. It really helps in this whole journey. Thanks for letting me share with you. It’s helping to bring a closure to all this. I’m good now and I’ve got great support all around me. I wish you all a great day.


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Bonjour tout le monde. Voici une longue histoire courte puisque je veux partager avec vous les merveilleuses cartes que j’ai reçues et qu’une petite explication sur ce qui s’est passé dans ma vie dans le dernier mois va vous aider à comprendre. D’abord, j’ai su que j’étais enceinte le 24 janvier dernier. J’ai dû le dire tout de suite à mon travail pour un retrait préventif immédiat. Je l’ai donc aussi dit à mes amis et j’ai reçu de magnifiques cartes de félicitations. Je voulais vraiment toutes vous les montrer mais j’avais peur que ma grossesse ne se déroule pas bien et j’ai attendu… Et le tout à commencé, j’ai eu une première échographie qui montrait que le bébé était moins « vieux » que prévu. Par la suite j’ai eu des saignements et j’ai eu la confirmation aujourd’hui que j’ai perdu le bébé. La bonne nouvelle de cette mauvaise nouvelle est que je n’ai pas eu besoin de curetage. J’ai dit à mes amis du StampShack que je devais attendre 2 semaines pour savoir ce qui se passait et j’ai reçu de merveilleuses cartes d’encouragement que je voulais partager avec vous. Je me trouve vraiment choyée d’avoir de si bons amis. Ça aide vraiment dans les moments moins heureux. Merci de me permettre de partager tout ça avec vous, ça aide à boucler la boucle. Ça va bien maintenant et j’ai beaucoup de support de ma famille et de mes proches. Bonne journée.

17 commentaires:

Kim H. a dit...

I know it has been a hard day for you ! Big hugs!

Lorie a dit...

Oh, no...I'm so sorry! I would love to send you a card if you would e-mail me your address. I'm so glad that medical intervention was not needed but so sad for your loss. Hugs and lots of love heading your way!

Catherine a dit...

=( I'm so sorry....hope all is well.

Fe-Fe a dit...

I so sorry to hear you lost the baby Pescbrico. My thoughts are with you. Sending you a huge hug.
Fe x

Janine a dit...

I am so sorry for your loss. You sound well and you certainly sound like you have the support of many family and friends to help you .

Caroline a dit...

ah, ma chere, je te tiens dans me pensées! merci d'avoir expliqué et partagé avec nous tous

Tina a dit...

I am sad for your loss. Big Hugs!!

Maria a dit...

I'm really sorry for your loss. I worked on the "ante-partum" unit at the hospital and saw women losing their babies on a regular basis and it's always sad and hard for them. I hope you are okay.

Your friends are really nice to send you such pretty cards! It's very sweet of them. My thoughts are with you.

Maria

Ana Baird a dit...

Really sorry for your loss Pescbrico. Sending you a big hug.

christie a dit...

You know you have so many friends and that we are going through this journey with you. Always in my thoughts!

CAKVD a dit...

I'm still sending hugs and prayers your way.
Cheryl

Anne Bélanger a dit...

Je suis vraiment désolée pour ton bébé. Je vous garde, ta petite famille et toi, dans mes prières. Prends soin de toi.

Amy Sheffer a dit...

I am so very sorry for your loss, especially as I have been through this, too. You're in my prayers. Big hugs, Amy

Thanh a dit...

*BIG HUGS*

I'm sorry for all that you've been through Pascale, but I think today was the day you saw the end of the rainbow.

Carolynn a dit...

Pascale,
Je suis si désolée pour toi. Je sais que ce n'est pas facile (J'en ai perdu 5). Prends le temps qu'il te faut pour vivre tes émotions. Je pense à toi,
Carolynn

Erin... a dit...

I am sorry for your loss. Know that you are in my thoughts. erin

Dee a dit...

I've come to your site via Fe Fe's World - she's my daughter...

So sorry at your sad loss, I wish you and your family well. You certainly seem to have many friends around you to support you. Long may this continue.